Does he really like me? 21 really good ways to be sure
Isn’t it really frustrating when you just can’t tell if a guy really likes you or not? A lot of women are pretty clueless when it comes to figuring out if a guy likes them or not, but I’d say it’s not really their fault.
The whole world knows that when it comes to expressing themselves, men in general could do with some lessons. But men will be men and nothing will change overnight.
Therefore, here are some good ways you can finally find out if he really likes you or not…
Situation 1- When you don’t know the person yet…
1. He looks at you…
Some men go a little overboard when checking out a woman. If you catch a guy looking at you, he’s checking you out. It’s not a very flattering way to check someone out, but it’s what this guy knows, and if you catch him doing it, he definitely likes you.
2. He has a “wow” look on his face…
Some men get a “wow” look on their face when they check out a woman. The fact is that they are so impressed by what they see that they cannot control the awe that comes over them. If you see a person looking at you with an expression of awe on their face, then they are checking you out.
3. He looks away when he gets caught…
Some men look away when caught looking at a woman. If you find a guy looking at you, but the moment your eyes meet his, he looks away, it’s because he’s been consciously checking you out and is now uncomfortable with being caught.
4. He gives you a shy smile…
Sometimes you find a guy looking at you and when your eyes meet his, he gives you a sheepish smile. If a guy does that, then he’s checking you out. He doesn’t really expect you to smile back, but it’s his indirect way of letting you know that he likes you.
5. He gets flirtatious…
He will try to see if he can impress you with all the flirting techniques he knows. He will try to impress you with whatever he thinks are his cute features. If you see something like this happening, know that this person is totally in love with you.
6. He wants to know about you…
If you find that he is trying to find out things about you from your friends, about your personal life, things that interest you, etc. You know there’s more to it than meets the eye. The fact that he is doing all this simply means that he is preparing to meet you.
7. He’s here, there, everywhere, wherever you are, that’s…
He tries every trick he knows to be around you. He does all of this because if he ever gets an opportunity to start a conversation with you, he doesn’t want to miss it. Signs of romance, for sure!
Situation 2 – When you already know him…
8. He spends most of his time with you…
If he wants to spend all his time with you because he’s happiest when he’s with you, it shows that he really likes you. It means that he enjoys your company and no matter how busy he is, he finds time to be with you; it shows his deep affection for you.
9. He listens to you very attentively…
He doesn’t pretend to listen, he actually does and gives you his full attention, he likes you and respects your opinion, and more importantly, he respects your feelings. His action says that he places great value on everything you have to say, and it will come only when you like it.
10. He doesn’t let you down…
If he made a promise, he makes sure he keeps it, he never lets you down. He’s not one to make plans and then forget about it or not call in case he can’t be there; this shows his concern as he doesn’t want to hurt you in any way.
11. He wants to know everything about you…
He really likes you and his interest is genuine if he shows great interest in your life and wants to know everything about you. He is interested in your interests and hobbies, your dreams and desires, small details because his feelings are real, in fact he may fall in love with you and wants to know everything that makes you the person you are.
12. He accepts you…
He likes you with your flaws and imperfections and doesn’t want to change you to his expectations. He admires your qualities and realizes that no one is perfect and happily overlooks any flaws you may have.
13. He is concerned about your well-being…
Only when a man has true feelings for his woman will he care about her well-being and wish her happiness and joy. If he really likes you, he will want to see that you are always happy.
14. He will pay you smart compliments…
You will notice a lot of compliments coming your way when a man really likes you. If you find that these compliments are becoming innovative and intelligent in nature, then he definitely likes you and is trying to impress you.
15. He will initiate some form of physical contact…
One of the best ways to really know if he likes you is to study his actions around you. You will find that this person will try to initiate some form of physical contact when they are around you. Whether it’s simply helping you cross the street or gently brushing your hair out of your face, he’ll be looking for a way to touch you.
16. He will get more information about you…Personal Information…
If he really likes you, he would definitely want to know a lot more about your personal life. Especially things like whether you’re single or not, what kind of men you like, etc.
17. He will try hard to sell himself…
When he really likes you, he’ll naturally want you to like him back, and in the process, he’ll try really hard to impress you. And this will become very evident if you find him always trying too hard when he is in your company.
18. He can’t hide his happiness to see you…
If his eyes light up the moment he sees you and he finds it hard to hide his joy even if he tries, it means that he has romantic thoughts about you running through his mind. The glow on his face, the stars in his eyes will point to this.
19. Is he extremely happy when you come…
Does he seem extremely happy when you’re around and have that big smile plastered on his face that’s almost impossible to miss? If you are the source of this happiness, then it is extremely obvious that he likes you a lot.
20. He can’t hear anything negative about you…
If you find that he is the first to jump to your defense if someone has said a rude or rude remark about you at a party or other place, it’s because he has romantic feelings for you and can’t bear to hear anyone speak ill of you for you.
21. He tries to chase the other guys away…
If you ever notice that when other guys start approaching you, that guy will try to do something to push you away from them or push them away from you. It’s simply because he doesn’t want any competition around him.
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