How to get a Gemini man to commit to you! Advice for winning his heart
Being in love with a Gemini man can be both wonderful and challenging. If you are a woman who has fallen for one of these men, you already know this. Gemini men have so many fantastic, gentle and charming qualities. They are intelligent and loyal. These men are also spontaneous and a lot of fun, so be prepared for a lifetime of adventure if you’re lucky enough to make the Gemini man in your life want to commit to you. Many women find that these men are slow to take any romantic relationship to the next level. There is a reason for this, and once you know what it is, you can work on helping him overcome any emotional barriers he may have so he can commit to you and your future together.
Embrace the relationship for what it is
Gemini men usually don’t follow their heart in commitment. Instead, they lead with their heads. They consider their relationship before deciding if it’s right for them. They don’t give in easily to romantic gestures or heartfelt love letters. They want to know that the partner they choose to spend their lives with will be right for them in the long run.
To that end, it’s important not to force your man into a commitment before he’s ready. If you try this tactic, he will likely withdraw from the relationship or end it altogether. He doesn’t want to feel like he’s being forced into something he’s not sure is right for him.
He wants to take the time to assess how well you two fit together as a couple. That’s why it’s important to embrace the relationship here and now. Don’t chase it or constantly talk about where you hope things will go in the future. Be honest and sincere today and it will impress him as he considers his future and your possible future together as a married couple.
This is also important in terms of sharing what you feel with him. You might want to shout from the rooftops that you love him and can’t wait to be his wife. If he’s not emotionally ready to hear this, don’t be shocked if he withdraws to the point that he’s suddenly too busy to spend time with you. Men born under this sign are easily intimidated, so you should let him set the tone and pace of the relationship. He wants to be with someone who is relaxed and not focused on an engagement ring or an extravagant wedding.
Keep him captivated by being interesting
A man born under the astrological sign of Gemini will usually be very intelligent. These men crave information and are often on a lifelong journey to learn as much as they can about anything they can. If you want to like a man like this, it’s important to understand his never-ending need to acquire more and more knowledge.
This doesn’t mean you have to change who you are, but there are many benefits for any woman who continues to gain new information on a daily basis. If you keep up with what’s happening in the news, if you read the latest and greatest bestsellers, and if you pursue interests in things you find fascinating, you will become a much more attractive person in every aspect of your life.
Your Gemini man wants to be able to have a conversation with you that involves some depth. He wants to know that you can keep up with him in a debate about almost anything. If you manage to do this, it will not only impress him, but also create a bond that will be hard to break. Gemini men want and need to find a woman who looks at the world and all it has to offer with a sense of wonder.
Don’t be afraid to flirt with him
No matter how long you’ve been with your Gemini, you can be sure that he loves it when you flirt with him. A man like this wants and needs to know that the woman he is committed to cannot get enough of him. He wants to get flirty texts every now and then throughout the day and loves it when she tells him that there is no other man in the world that she finds as attractive as him.
Some relationships cool over time, and in the case of a Gemini relationship, this could spell early disaster. If he feels that you are no longer making an effort to make him feel loved and adored, he may turn his attention elsewhere.
In addition to making sure you show him how you feel through small gestures every day, there’s also huge value in planning something spontaneous for the two of you to do together. Gemini men are not so intrigued by huge, romantic spectacles. They are more taken when a woman makes the effort to plan a date night or day that involves something they enjoy doing.
If your significant other loves sailing, plan a weekend sailing trip for the two of you. Or maybe he always wanted to go diving. Find a local place where you can take lessons and then plan a trip in a few months. Anything you can do that shows you understand and embrace him and his interests will melt his heart.
Just remember to show him, through actions and deeds, constantly how lucky you feel to be loved by him. If you do this, instead of repeatedly pushing him to commit, you will make him want to commit to you because he will see you as his ideal life partner. Subtlety is key when trying to get a Gemini man to see you as the woman of his dreams.
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