How to start a sexual conversation with a girl without sounding awkward or creepy
In this article, I teach you how to initiate a sexual conversation with a girl without telegraphing sexual intentions.
Your conversation with a girl you are interested in should be focused on sexual topics.
In other words, if you’re talking to a girl you’re attracted to and want to get into a romantic relationship with, you’ll want your conversation or interaction with her to be sexual.
In addition to the friendly conversation you will have with her, you should move to sexual topics to bring you closer to an intimate relationship.
The goal here is to introduce sexual tension and generate attraction to her.
The truth is, if you keep talking to a girl you’re interested in on a friend level, she’ll categorize you as a friend in her mind.
She will see you as just a friend, but not as someone she is sexually attracted to.
The downside of this is that women or girls know that men want to have sex with them. So any hesitant suggestion or advance on your part can make a woman raise her defenses.
So how do you deal with it? How do you start a sexual conversation with a girl without raising any red flags?
Just like the title says, in this article I teach you how to start a sexual conversation with a girl without sounding awkward or creepy.
You’ll learn the 3 best ways to broach the subject of sex without conveying any interests.
Before you start…
Know that women love to talk about sex…
But most of them are reluctant to talk about it with men with whom they do not feel comfortable or have no emotional connection.
So, before starting sexual topics with a woman or girl, first make sure that you have reached an understanding with her.
It’s even better if she gives you some indication of interest. For example, when he plays with his hair, touches you, or leans into you when you talk.
With that said, let’s get started…how to start a sexual conversation with a girl.
Here’s how to start a sexual conversation with a girl:
Tip #1: Talk about things from a sexual perspective
Let’s say you’re talking about a movie.
Don’t tell her how much you like him because of his car chase and how some dude needs to kick some more.
Instead, tell her how you like the love relationship between the characters.
And how he loved the sensuality of their scenes together. And then you ask her if there are any other movies that have influenced her in that way, and have her explain why.
Tip #2: Feed her mind
Insert sexually charged words or phrases into your normal conversation with her.
A great way to do this is to use sexual innuendo or double entendre. This is when you say something innocent but could be considered dirty or sexual.
For example:
- “Boy, it really is hard.” (When you’re talking about ice cream.)
- “I didn’t come with her.” (When you talk about a party you went to.)
- “He almost with a rear end her.” (When you talk about someone being hit by a car.)
Another effective way to feed her mind or gradually bring up sexual topics is to use “She Said Jokes” and “He Said Jokes”.
When she says something like:
- “Put it on inside“
- “It’s much better when it is wet“
- “You want to Come inside” (when he invites you to his apartment)
… then you respond with:
- “That’s what she said”
Or when she says something like…
- “You’re making it hard (about me)”
- “It really does hard“
- “I want to Eat the whole thing”
… then you respond with:
- “That’s what HE said”
When she says something dirty on purpose, then tease her for having a dirty mind.
Of course, you don’t want to enter this territory during the early stages or when you’re just getting to know each other.
You start with a superficial conversation, then build it up to a more sexual conversation.
Again, make sure you get along with her first. Then you start using sexually charged words in your conversation.
And with time, she will feel comfortable talking about sexual topics with you.
If she doesn’t play along, then she probably isn’t comfortable with you yet.
Here’s how to start a sex conversation with a girl…
Tip #3: Mention a sexual situation to your friend
For example:
You can tell her that you have a friend who complains that her boyfriend doesn’t like to go south during sex. And she thinks her boyfriend doesn’t like the idea of giving in to her or isn’t picking up on the hints she’s giving him.
Now ask her how women can offer such things to their men.
- “Well, how do women hint at such a thing?”
(You see what you’re doing here… making her talk specifically about sex)
Now, if she talks freely about sex, then she feels comfortable discussing sexual situations with you.
And from now on, she will start having sexual conversations with you.
There you have it…how to start a sexual conversation with a girl or woman.
Understand this: Don’t turn the girl or woman you’re talking to into a sexual conversation. Only talk about other people’s sexual situations.
Conclusion: How to start a sexual conversation with a girl
If you can bring up sexual topics or start a sexual conversation with a girl in a way that doesn’t imply that you want to sleep with her, she will be more interested and open to talking about sexual topics with you. (Again, women love to talk about sex)
And again, as mentioned earlier, make sure you get along with her first.
Pay attention to her when using the above 3 tactics.
If you can tell she’s comfortable with that kind of conversation and she’s playing along, go ahead. But if not, back off a bit and carry on with your normal conversation.
When all is said and done, when a woman is open to talking about sex, it doesn’t mean she’s ready to have sex with you. It means she is comfortable around you. And that’s a green light to move things into the romantic arena.
So again, this is how to start a sexual conversation with a girl.
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