The evils of masturbation and some suggestions for their removal
In a recent televised symposium on sex-related issues, a young participant raised the question to the moderator: “Sir, some people say that masturbation is not good for health. Please advise me sir.” The presiding officer stated, “There is no harm associated with masturbation.” Saying this, he went on to list some “advantages” of masturbation and ended his speech by saying that masturbation, if not done often, will not harm but will be beneficial to health. He concluded that masturbation is the best alternative to sex with a partner because there is no risk of HIV involved. I had strong objections to this theory. I sincerely wish that my objections will not go unheard, and therefore I am writing this article for the benefit of young men. A brief reference to Homo sex is also made.
SEX is the greatest gift that nature has given to all living beings.
Every “living” being simply craves sex with a partner of the opposite sex. In the case of animal beings, only one sexual partner will be very dominant over the other. Mostly the male partner dominates the female, as in the case of oxen, cats, dogs, etc. But in the case of human beings, the situation is different. Here, the woman is equally, sometimes more dominantly interested in sex than her male partner.
Civilized society has established some very difficult rules for human sex, and this is precisely why women are subjected to harsher conditions than their counterparts. Therefore, in the case of human beings, the male bears a greater responsibility in satisfying the sexual needs of the female partner.
What is sex?
The sexual instinct starts from childhood itself. Children love to see male organs, touch them and lick them too. I have also seen some boys describing the insides of women, sometimes their blood relatives, who they watched while the latter was bathing or changing underwear. The height of these habits is that if the parents have sex in the same bedroom where the boy is supposed to sleep (in India this practice is common), the boys will pretend to be asleep and observe the sexual act of their parents and describe it to your friends in detail the next day.
After the boy becomes an adult, he likes to see girls, talk to them, play hide and seek. While playing, they will touch their private parts, kiss them and experience sexual pleasure. After reaching puberty, the boy or girl will experience certain mysterious feelings that he or she will not be able to explain.
In older times, marriages took place well before puberty and therefore sex would not be a problem because after puberty they were allowed to have sex.
But nowadays the minimum age of bridegroom or bride in common practice is 26. So every youth, whether boy or girl, has to wait 10 to 12 years after entering puberty.
Naturally, they resort to alternative methods of obtaining sexual pleasure. If they have enough money, they go to prostitutes, if they don’t, they resort to masturbation, and if they have male company and privacy, they resort to homo sexuality. This practice is also widespread among girls and they are called lesbians.
In this article, we deal with men only because the man bears more responsibility for satisfying the partner.
MASTURBATION means the manual stimulation of the genital organs, by one’s own efforts or with the help of another, to achieve orgasm, otherwise known as onanism. This is what the leading guest, a self-proclaimed sex consultant, said: “It is not dangerous for health. In fact, it is necessary to reduce tension and desire for sex.’ Another argument was that “it is good to indulge in masturbation as it will reduce sexual crimes such as rape”. The third and final advantage, he said, was “it won’t spread HIV because there’s no question of spreading the virus when there’s no other partner involved who can transmit blood-related fluids.”
When a young man asked him, “Sir, may I masturbate tonight, sir?” he replied casually, “why tonight? You can indulge in masturbation until the day itself after lunch, as soon as you get home” amidst the roar of laughter from the audience.
How does this habit start?
In most cases, this habit starts as an accident. When a teenager is in early puberty, he is affected by some unfamiliar feelings that he cannot describe. He is very happy to touch the male organs and often massages them. One fine day he will find himself having an orgasm due to the ejaculation of sperm. His pleasure knows no bounds as he has received a whole new sensation which he had never imagined before. He then waits for another opportunity to masturbate and over time it becomes a regular habit. Bad company of friends makes the process very fast. Reading porn books, watching porn TV shows makes a person indulge more and more in this evil habit.
What are the evils of masturbation?
Over time, he found that the pleasure would gradually diminish and eventually cease to be pleasurable. He will also lose his virility. He will face premature ejaculation, leaving his partner completely unsatisfied. His reproductive capacity will end as soon as possible. He may have children, as assured by the above speaker, but his family life will be completely worthless. His wife who has more sexual desire as described above will be completely upset and in several cases such disaffected women become disloyal to their marriage partners.
Psychologically, he will also lose all confidence. He will not be able to compete with anyone, whether in the service or in the family. In short, he would be almost a dead man, showing some talents outwardly, but utter weakness inwardly. I know a well-educated computer engineer, handsome and well-versed in computer applications, but very weak in sexual activity. This article is meant for young people like him.
Homo sex has all the above evils in addition to the fact that the partners are open to the risk of HIV infection. In fact, the origin of HIV is reported to begin only with gay sex. In so many countries, gay sex is legalized and so it is advisable to suspend criticism except to point out the physical, medical and psychological disadvantages listed above.
What are the ways and means of avoiding masturbation?
Nature has given the pleasure of sex mainly for the reproduction of species, which can only be obtained through proper relationships with the opposite sex. But nowadays, due to population explosion, several methods to stop re-production like condom, contraceptive drugs and vasectomy procedures are in vogue. In general, there is a sharp decline in the birth rate. This may be an act of nature to maintain its balance. But people need to maintain interest and involvement in marital sex in order to produce healthy children. At least the children who come to Earth at birth should be healthy and hearty.
From an early age, male children should be properly trained in moral education. Parents should control their children from watching pornographic films and reading pornographic literature. They should freely discuss sexual matters with their children. Schools can include sexuality education in their curricula.
Girls should not be separated from boys (as in some parts of India). They must move freely, of course under parental and teacher supervision.
Training in moral education should be accompanied by training in yoga and meditation. They should also be trained to live in groups with high moral values. Parents should take care to marry off their wards at the appropriate age when their sexual desire is at its peak. Their interest in sex should also be a factor to consider in addition to other considerations such as education, employment and earning potential.
Artificial sexual pleasure is a major threat to the future of today’s youth. They should take necessary steps against this practice. This will avoid a possible disaster at a future date.
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