The meaning of gifts – silk tie
Red roses mean love; yellow roses mean friendship; earrings for a woman mean that she is cared for, but that he is not fully committed; a teddy bear for a birthday present means the relationship is new and it’s the “safe” option if you’re still unsure about your feelings… the list goes on.
So when it comes to men’s ties… what do they mean as a gift? What messages are they sending? If you want a future with your man and can see yourself in a committed relationship with him, a men’s tie is definitely the gift you want to aim for. However, the timing has to be right. If you are going to give a man a silk tie, wait at least 1 year before giving it to him.
At the beginning of a relationship, most people stick to the “safe” gifts that can’t be misinterpreted… a cuddly teddy bear, tickets to a sports game, a cool key ring or concert tickets are all great gifts for a man in the first year of a relationship you because they are all fun and light.
From the 12th month of the relationship, however, you don’t want to stay in the “fun” and “light” phase, so you need to change the types of gifts you give him. If you don’t, then your relationship will only be light and fun… or it will end because he wants something more serious.
After 12 months of dating, it’s time to start thinking about a silk tie. What does this gift mean? Well, it shows that you are serious and committed to begin with. If you didn’t care about him, his future, or his self-esteem, you wouldn’t buy him a gift like this. Therefore, you are saying through this gift that you see him as a longer-term part of your life and someone you can have a committed relationship with. It sends a subtle, subliminal message that you are “wifey” material because you care about his work, appearance, confidence, self-esteem, and happiness. Of course, this can only be said by gifting him a high quality men’s tie – never skip out and buy a low quality polyester tie as this will send a negative message.
A silk tie shows that you care about him, love him and want him to be happy and successful in whatever he chooses. But time is an integral part. Only give him a silk tie after 12 months into your relationship because then he will really appreciate it from you. It won’t be embarrassing or “full on,” but it will subtly show him that you’re serious… and when all is said and done, a man wants a woman who cares about him and can see a future with him. Women he can’t see a future with always “fall by the wayside”… so be sure to separate yourself and do so proactively.
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