The seven spheres of love
The First Realm of Love – The Physical Realm
I love you. I love your look. I need to have you in my life. i can’t live without you i’m desperate for you You’re everything I’ve ever dreamed of and more. I’m turned on by you and that’s why I can’t live without you. You’re perfect. I am yours and you are mine. You have no fault. I can’t think of a reason why our love shouldn’t last. I want to own you, marry you, own you. I give my life for you. I’m in love with you.
I know this is very loaded. I’m blinded by this love. I will throw away my dreams, my passions and my ambitions just to be with you. I also know, as people have warned me, that this love, this passion, this fire is unsustainable, but I am blind. I’m blinded by the emotion and chemistry running through my veins. I was warned but my life was hell before I met you and now it’s heaven. Oh, even just for this day, this love, this fire, this nonsense is worth it.
Passion is physical, urges are uncontrollable. The problem is that it can’t last, it breaks his life when it breaks, and there’s really no way to avoid it. It is the lowest primal level of love and subsequently the most extreme.
The second kingdom of Love – My mind
I love you. I think like you. Our dreams are so similar. I believe what you believe and I think what you think. I know we are right in our way of life. We are on common ground, we live by this code, and this code is ours. We agree, we like the same pictures, we like the same holidays. We are of the same opinion, we are in love.
I’ve told people they should be like you. They should be good and happy. I told the brothers, friends and family what to do. Now I’ve met you, there’s no need because we agree. We agree that the world should be as we dream it to be.
This level of love is so intellectual. It is based on ideals. If you match my picture I love you, if not I hate you. This is religious love. Fair and conditional. There are so many expectations at this level that one of the two partners must be submissive and therefore inevitably become resentful. This is the typical, western, good citizen relationship. A perfect lie.
The third kingdom of love – Emotion
I love you. I cry thinking about you. I write these verses out of love for you; poems that express this romance, this beauty, this feeling so deep within me. From the moment I met you, I knew I loved you. I felt it deep in my heart. I’m sad without you, I get angry if I can’t be with you. I feel good with you, you make me happy, I want you by my side all the time because you make me feel so good, I need you in my life.
You are my sunshine, my morning, my every breath. You are the dew on my skin and the sun in my heart. I breathe in you and these roses, this gift, this meal, this wine, this touch on your shoulder, sends shivers down my spine. I keep your picture close to my heart and celebrate you with happiness. I await your call.
I’m sorry for my reaction when you came home late. I’m sorry I got angry. I can not help. I feel so beautiful and so vulnerable. I feel you when I walk. Oh, my love, let this feeling, this romance, last forever between us. Sorry for these mood swings. They are completely inexplicable. Oh my love, be mine forever.
The joy is uncontrollable, the surrender is complete, the love feels fused and animated. This level of love is mesmerizing. Two lovers will fall into each other’s arms and the romance is wonderful. Great holidays and a great idea, great romantic dinners and more. However, emotion has no substance. The same emotion that drives the couple into this love is the same emotion that burns them or draws them to others. Emotional people cannot maintain integrity. Emotions are reactions to the environment. Never trust emotions. (or emotional people)
The fourth kingdom of love – the Heart
I love you. Whether you come or go in my life, I love you. Whether you are well or ill, for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, all the days of my life. I will love you. I will love you no matter what happens. I will love you. i know i love you you and i are in love It’s fate, we are friends for life, I love you.
I want you to be happy my love. Yes, why don’t you travel and see the world. Why don’t you move to Africa and work, I’ll always be here for you. I want the family to be happy. I care about you so much. I want to hug you, warm you. I want your life to be wonderful and even more wonderful because of me.
I’m glad you’re moving on from me. Yes, we are close friends. We have reached a wonderful depth of our love, so much so that you feel like my sister, or brother, or something. I want you to be happy and our friendship is vital. We can work together, be friends together forever.
I’m a little sorry that the romance came out of our relationship. That we are such wonderful friends is amazing, but I really hoped we would stay passionate. We have moved away from that passion we had when we first met. Maybe we should have spent more time playing. I love you always, my love and my friend, forever.
The beauty of this love is that it brings honor. Respects individuality. She honors herself, this love is based on independence. This is the realm of the wounded, the frightened, the self-made master of the ego who claims spiritual or self-actualization. People at this level of love are eternally lonely, even though they are convinced that they are capable of loving unconditionally. There is simply no surrender here.
The fifth kingdom of love – Devotion
I love you. I knew deep in my heart that one day I would find you. I knew that somewhere there was a lover whose life’s mission, whose life’s passion would intertwine with mine to create something magnificent on this earth. We are like two musicians whose life purpose apart from each other is four times the value together.
We will serve together on our mission in life. You bring gifts and I bring gifts and together with them our highest calling will be to share them with the world. I love you deeply; I celebrate all four spheres of love with you, and now this, our purpose in life.
It’s more than me, it’s more than you, it’s sacred, our purpose together. We can do what we love in life and share this journey together. Thank you for opening your heart and life to me. We are bound by more than a contract of intimacy and love; we are bound by our commitment to something greater than both of us. I dedicate my love to you, I know that in this way we will give what we were born to give. My love is eternal, thank you.
This relationship seems to lack the physical grunt and assertiveness of lovers in love. But these two people love each other because they live and work and share the journey of life together. They have to be careful to make sure they don’t drift through life and forget those lower levels of love that are needed as a foundation for this one.
The Sixth Realm of Love – Inspired
I love you. Oh silence of the night, let my mind be calm, my soul content, let my love become one with yours. We were two, we are one. We connect on all levels, from the physical and romantic to the emotional and fantastical. But mostly we bond in the light.
I walk with you no matter where you go. I’m sleeping with you no matter what you know. I am always with you, awake or asleep; this is my eternal love. More than a bet, it’s real. I know your breath, I know your heart. I am not far away, I am in your thoughts, in your realm, we are one and bound.
Know me my love and you will know yourself. Dive each day through the emotion and the challenge and when you decide you will find me. Choose love and I’m here. It’s a step beyond, but it’s more real than they realize. Let me hold you without hands, let me touch you without sound, see me without eyes, I am you, we are one, in love.
There is no me, me or you at this level of love. It’s a rare relationship that reaches this level. Too many distractions drawn to the lower realms by the ego, by fear and the search for God. This level of love is only for those who are ready to throw themselves into something sacred and make their relationship the pinnacle of their spiritual and religious journey. Religious and guru-worshipping people cannot reach this level of love in a relationship.
The Seventh Realm – Unconditional Love
I love you. emptiness. I can’t tell the time. I love you. emptiness. I cannot know space. You’re out of shape, even though I know your love. You are not in the sound, although I hear you ring. We are one soul, one love, one now.
Beyond the realms where voices speak, we are bound stronger than lovers who cry. We sit without a mind; we sit at this time and get to know each other. I know you when I see mountains so high, a lake so quiet, a wind so gentle. I know you when nature reminds me, I am loved, I am loved, I am loved.
I look up at the stars and there they are. I look at the moon; it’s not that far. I look into nothingness, into the beauty of everything, and there you are, you’re not that far away at all. Invisible, I see you in the beauty of the simplest world. Never before. Never before.
The third mind, the soul, the human spirit does not know itself, the other, right or wrong. It is mesmerized by the beauty of existence and is therefore beyond the limit of distraction. The view of the infinite is found in this realm of love. Lovers rise in seconds to this place in orgasm. The Sacred Connection considers this the most powerful truth.
Summary of Chapter in Sacred Love, a book about relationships that last forever.
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